if you meet somebody for the first time and you get. a negative first impression
are you going to look if it's the truth ( for you?)
or can you only see a fat person?
I found in a book the thought that people can be too proud to change their opinion......
at first sight i see a piece of cloth on a cabin and think...yekkkk
at a closer look, a detail of the cloth, i see how beautiful it is...
is this a good comparison?